Jamilan Dili children's caring and childrens mental health series reports

Time goes by quickly, in a blink of an eye, Xiao Bian is already the mother of two children; think of their childhood, youth, and youth, feel like a dream, flies. Of course, their own growth process is very healthy and very happy. Now I am a mother engaged in children's clothing industry at the same time, want to share with you how to make their children's mental health, so that their children can grow happily. 1, giving children full care and warmth Parental care will give them a sense of security and trust, especially when children are with other children, parents should pay attention to attitude and avoid being too affectionate to other children to stimulate their children's jealousy heart. 2, to stimulate children's self-awareness and self-confidence When parents see other children in some ways stronger than their children, do not blame the children face to face. When the child makes a little progress, he will give his approval in time to make him aware of his ability and strength, inspire his self-awareness and self-confidence. 3, to help children adjust the hurt feelings From the child's psychological point of view, if the child envy others, he may be reckless to hurt others, such as grab someone else's toys, spoil the beloved things, or even hit people, so The behavior will hurt the feelings of others. To help children get rid of the harassment of emotional problems, to maintain a pleasant and comfortable mood, encourage children in a timely manner. At the same time, positive emotional implication should be given to the child, such as using emotionally suggestive encouragement, or diverting his attention, telling him a story, taking him out for a walk, etc., causing him to dilute or replace his jealousy with another emotion . 4, to guide the envy of the positive transformation of jealousy, after all, is a negative emotion of children's psychological existence, parents should help children to transform it into a positive. This mainly depends on the parents' education and guidance, so as to stimulate their children's sense of competition and self-confidence. Helping children understand how other children succeed by changing the low-level, simple way of thinking that compares results only. Second, to guide the child to conduct self-analysis to help him find his own weaknesses and advantages, to avoid harassment of unhealthy psychology such as selfishness, attack, stubbornness, etc., made him feel that he has many advantages, turn the negative emotions jealous of others into positive aspects.